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Ask me anything from relationship troubles to beauty tips and I will give you my most honest and direct advice. My answers will always be positive and reassuring. I will never judge or condemn anyone for their choices or lifestyle.
Warning: I can only give you answers from my own experiences. If I feel that you need more help than I can provide, I will always suggest that you see a licensed doctor, therapist, psychiatrist or other professional that will help you.
I may not publish every letter onto this page but I will try to respond to everyone who sends an email. If you wish not to appear on this page or wish to be anonymous, please let me know in the email. Thanks! I hope to hear from you soon!
Hi Jenn,
I have a son in his 20s who is very angry and holds a lot of resentment towards me.
His attitude prevents him from keeping jobs and he suffers in almost every area of his life.
He is nice when he wants something but as soon as I say no, he starts spewing off, calling me names and bad mouthing my parenting and anything else he can say to hurt me.
This last episode has pushed me over the edge and I have decided I am done.
Any advice would be appreciated. - About to disown my Son
Dear About to disown my son,
It sounds as if your son needs some counseling and I pray he gets it.
As for you, your son is an adult so there is very little you can do to control his actions or behaviors. All you can do is encourage him to get some help. However, if his anger is directed towards you, he probably won't listen to your advice.
Try to keep your thoughts about him positive even though you may be feeling frustrated and angry with him.
Instead of thinking of him failing or being miserable, try to picture him finding his way and becoming successful and happy.
I know it can be difficult to do this, especially when you are in the heat of the moment but neither you nor your son will benefit from negative thoughts about him. What you focus and think about most will become your reality...keep that in mind.
Heal your heart and mind by meditating and by taking care of you. Remember, you can't help anyone if you are not emotionally and mentally well, yourself.
I will ge praying for both of you. Keep in touch. -Jenn
I have a son in his 20s who is very angry and holds a lot of resentment towards me.
His attitude prevents him from keeping jobs and he suffers in almost every area of his life.
He is nice when he wants something but as soon as I say no, he starts spewing off, calling me names and bad mouthing my parenting and anything else he can say to hurt me.
This last episode has pushed me over the edge and I have decided I am done.
Any advice would be appreciated. - About to disown my Son
Dear About to disown my son,
It sounds as if your son needs some counseling and I pray he gets it.
As for you, your son is an adult so there is very little you can do to control his actions or behaviors. All you can do is encourage him to get some help. However, if his anger is directed towards you, he probably won't listen to your advice.
Try to keep your thoughts about him positive even though you may be feeling frustrated and angry with him.
Instead of thinking of him failing or being miserable, try to picture him finding his way and becoming successful and happy.
I know it can be difficult to do this, especially when you are in the heat of the moment but neither you nor your son will benefit from negative thoughts about him. What you focus and think about most will become your reality...keep that in mind.
Heal your heart and mind by meditating and by taking care of you. Remember, you can't help anyone if you are not emotionally and mentally well, yourself.
I will ge praying for both of you. Keep in touch. -Jenn